Transitioning into working for the DV Civil Clinic

Working at Legal Aid this summer has been an eye opening experience.  I am still working there as a volunteer even though school has started and hope to continue volunteering until I have my baby.  I find it very rewarding to work with these clients despite some of the difficulties I may have described in other posts.  My experience also motivated me to sign up for the law school's Domestic Violence Civil Clinic.  In the civil clinic we are learning how to work with a very delicate population-- the survivors of emotional and physical abuse.  I already have some experience talking to survivors at Legal Aid and I want to learn how to relate to and help these people best.  Once of my most memorable Domestic Violence cases was a young woman who was raped multiple times by an ex-boyfriend.  The ex-boyfriend threatened her and said he would hire a fancy lawyer and destroy her reputation.  I made sure I emphasized that she did the right thing by filing a police report and coming to Legal Aid.  I think it is important to recognize how difficult it must be to talk about such a personal trauma.  I look forward to learning how to become a better advocate for these people and continuing to give back to my local community.

Handling Emotional Clients

Many clients seeking help at Legal Aid are there for a very legitimate reason.  Unfortunatley some of these people have experienced either emotional or physical abuse.  Others are in difficult situations involving family issues, housing, or finances.

This particular case stands out because it was very sad.  A daughter came to Legal Aid because her father recently passed away.  The father had re-married and the new wife made an effort to keep the children away from the father when he was sick and dying.  She also encouraged the father to change his will and give her everything.  Sometimes in difficult cases like this it was hard to remain impartial and professional. I would always make an extra effort to empathize and give the client plenty of time to tell the story.  These cases are more difficult when I relay the facts to Ralph and there is very little we can do at Legal Aid.  Since I've been a volunteer there for a longer amount of time, Ralph now asks me what I think we should do in every case.  I know our resources are limited as far as giving clients time with attorneys.  I make an extra effort to triage that precious attorney time to situations such as these.

Strange Stories Part 2

This next set of strange stories involves long distance marriage and paternity.

1)  A male in his thirties came to legal aid because he said his fiance was denied an international visa.  In his paperwork, the man's only income was $500 of food stamps.  I asked how he met his girlfriend and it turns out he has known her for five months and only over the internet.  Yet, he was convinced she was the one and went through the (expensive?) process of bringing her to the United States.  Supposedly she was stuck in Europe after a layover because her paperwork was denied.  This was a a strange situation.  Ralph's instruction was to refer him to a private immigration attorney in town.


2) One of my clients this last week was a young man approximately 25 years old.  He was he was at legal aid because he wanted to pay child support and be involved in the life of his young daughter who was only a few days old.  I congratulated him and asked how long he knew the mother and if they were still together.  He knew the mother for about seven months and they were no longer together.  I delicately asked if seven months was how long they were dating or if that was the timeline he had known her.  He was adamant that was how long he knew this woman and he relocated from Bend to raise his daughter.  I next asked him if he had a paternity test.  He seemed a bit confused but said he had not.  I then asked him how he knew it was his daughter.  His response, "she looks a lot like me."  I had a hard time gently informing him that from what he told me I did not understand how he could be the biological father of this child.  I encouraged him to take a paternity test but made sure to inform him he did not have to do this and he could choose to take the role of father in this child's life voluntarily.

Cases Regarding Money Issues

A lot of the cases I saw at Legal Aid involved debts.  These cases ranged from bankruptcy to underlying landlord tenant issues/divorces.  In many of these cases my experience working in the Small Claims Mediation Clinic two summers ago proved very helpful.  Thanks to my experience at the courthouse I knew the process a client goes through when he or she goes through the small claims process.  Most clients are not aware that they will be placed in mediation before they see the judge.  I always made sure to make an effort to describe the process and benefits of mediation.  Often this gave clients some comfort going into a small claims dispute.  One example: a woman who had no income except disability and government support had to go to small claims for a $300 bill owed to EWEB. I told her she was judgement proof and merely had to file an answer, show up, and tell the debt collector at mediation that she was judgement proof.  Most likely the debt collector would have no other choice but to forgive the debt.  This kind of assurance ensured that she filed an answer instead of trying to avoid the whole situation.  I also encouraged other clients to come into mediation with a BATNA and a WATNA.  Sometimes I spent a little extra time to walk the client through questions he or she might be asked at mediation and coached him or her on how to effectively communicate interests.